SOME GIRLS MAKE THEMSELVES
TOO CHEAP FOR MEN
IS ONE GOOD REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS
DO NOT MARRY ON TIME
TOO CHEAP FOR MEN
IS ONE GOOD REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS
DO NOT MARRY ON TIME
Matured Girls who make themselves too cheap to men stand to marry late or even not marry at all.
Cheap is defined as, “low in price”,” changing low prices”, “spending little”, “worth more than the price”, “easily got”, “of little value”,” contemptible”,” available at a low-interest rate”. These are the expressions that describe the word cheap.
There are Matured Girls who present themselves as “low priced girls” to men. These girls can accept a Ten Naira groundnut and sweet to fall in love to a man. Some of the Matured Girls can fall in love just for a cup of beer. There are other girls who bring themselves so low and can accept nothing as a token to become a lover to a man.
This makes it easier for men to exploit them sexually and after all the men still dump them for high price girls. There are also girls “who need nothing but nothing “to fall in love for a man. Oh, there should be a token from the man to show commitment.
That is why people in business ask for commitment payment before the job is done, because clients may go to other people to do the same work either higher or lower at a price. The placement of token creates confidence within the two people involved in the business. There are also Matured Girls “who worth more than the price “they place themselves before men”. Imagine a tall, well mannered, graduate without any deformity, falling in love with Motor Park tout with little or no education and with their normal I-don’t –care attitude. The tout uses and dumps her to her foolish fate. This is because most touts hardly marry properly.
There are girls who are “easily got”. This means that they can fall in love with a little gift of money, say Fifty Naira. These girls place themselves to be “of little value to men”. As a result, men need them when their key lovers are not around. So they become “contemptible” and “available at a low-interest rate”.
A situation where a girl is only called to be a temporary lover, by a man when his key lover travels out of town. The Matured Girl only goes out to show off to her friends and mates that she is now a lover to such a man who places no value on her
A Matured Girl who makes herself so cheap destroys her future or lands herself in the hand of those who will treat her without care, hence her life becomes miserable.
One of the reasons why men turn their wives into punch bags is as a result of the girl making herself so cheap. A girl who goes to live in a man’s house without letting her parents know of her relationship with that man is making herself so cheap. A girl who elopes with a man to live anywhere without the formal marital rites is making herself so cheap. A girl who does not want her husband to spend anything to marry her makes herself so cheap. A girl who could open her legs for a man for intercourse, become pregnant and deliver babies without her parent’s knowledge makes herself too cheap.
These categories of girls can be booted out of their relationship without any string attached to compensation. They go back to the streets to look for those men, who may use and drop them with such accusations as,” you are married before, your evil deeds and bad character drove you out.”This is because men place value on what they pay for. They know that a good girl cannot be gotten for nothing. “Her price is far above rubies”(Proverbs 31:10b).
Hence any girl who rushes to live with a man without formal marriage rites has deprived herself of respect of her parents and relations on her, her sweet wedding preparations which is the pride of leaving maidenhood to married life, the wedding ceremonies-traditional, court, and church respectively. She has lost her wedding gifts from her maiden family, her husband’s family, friends, workmates, and relations. It is good to be married properly to keep your dignity and respect.
Men who do not spend something in a marriage does not know the value of their wives. This is because a wife is defined as, “a man’s partner in marriage”. So there are many women on the streets out there, but very few wives really exist.
Majority of the women seen on the streets used the “backyard door “method, “the through window method” and or “the pregnancy method “to live with their husbands. A girl who makes herself cheap to a man loses the blessings of her parents, community, and others.
A wife is a partner of a man in marriage, who allowed herself and her husband pass through the formal rites of marriage before living together as husband and wife. This is what is called a “married woman”.
Those Matured Girls who flout the order of marital rites in their marriage may be thrown out of the relationship at any time, and they return to the streets to face late marriage and its consequences.
Cheap is defined as, “low in price”,” changing low prices”, “spending little”, “worth more than the price”, “easily got”, “of little value”,” contemptible”,” available at a low-interest rate”. These are the expressions that describe the word cheap.
There are Matured Girls who present themselves as “low priced girls” to men. These girls can accept a Ten Naira groundnut and sweet to fall in love to a man. Some of the Matured Girls can fall in love just for a cup of beer. There are other girls who bring themselves so low and can accept nothing as a token to become a lover to a man.
This makes it easier for men to exploit them sexually and after all the men still dump them for high price girls. There are also girls “who need nothing but nothing “to fall in love for a man. Oh, there should be a token from the man to show commitment.
That is why people in business ask for commitment payment before the job is done, because clients may go to other people to do the same work either higher or lower at a price. The placement of token creates confidence within the two people involved in the business. There are also Matured Girls “who worth more than the price “they place themselves before men”. Imagine a tall, well mannered, graduate without any deformity, falling in love with Motor Park tout with little or no education and with their normal I-don’t –care attitude. The tout uses and dumps her to her foolish fate. This is because most touts hardly marry properly.
There are girls who are “easily got”. This means that they can fall in love with a little gift of money, say Fifty Naira. These girls place themselves to be “of little value to men”. As a result, men need them when their key lovers are not around. So they become “contemptible” and “available at a low-interest rate”.
A situation where a girl is only called to be a temporary lover, by a man when his key lover travels out of town. The Matured Girl only goes out to show off to her friends and mates that she is now a lover to such a man who places no value on her
A Matured Girl who makes herself so cheap destroys her future or lands herself in the hand of those who will treat her without care, hence her life becomes miserable.
One of the reasons why men turn their wives into punch bags is as a result of the girl making herself so cheap. A girl who goes to live in a man’s house without letting her parents know of her relationship with that man is making herself so cheap. A girl who elopes with a man to live anywhere without the formal marital rites is making herself so cheap. A girl who does not want her husband to spend anything to marry her makes herself so cheap. A girl who could open her legs for a man for intercourse, become pregnant and deliver babies without her parent’s knowledge makes herself too cheap.
These categories of girls can be booted out of their relationship without any string attached to compensation. They go back to the streets to look for those men, who may use and drop them with such accusations as,” you are married before, your evil deeds and bad character drove you out.”This is because men place value on what they pay for. They know that a good girl cannot be gotten for nothing. “Her price is far above rubies”(Proverbs 31:10b).
Hence any girl who rushes to live with a man without formal marriage rites has deprived herself of respect of her parents and relations on her, her sweet wedding preparations which is the pride of leaving maidenhood to married life, the wedding ceremonies-traditional, court, and church respectively. She has lost her wedding gifts from her maiden family, her husband’s family, friends, workmates, and relations. It is good to be married properly to keep your dignity and respect.
Men who do not spend something in a marriage does not know the value of their wives. This is because a wife is defined as, “a man’s partner in marriage”. So there are many women on the streets out there, but very few wives really exist.
Majority of the women seen on the streets used the “backyard door “method, “the through window method” and or “the pregnancy method “to live with their husbands. A girl who makes herself cheap to a man loses the blessings of her parents, community, and others.
A wife is a partner of a man in marriage, who allowed herself and her husband pass through the formal rites of marriage before living together as husband and wife. This is what is called a “married woman”.
Those Matured Girls who flout the order of marital rites in their marriage may be thrown out of the relationship at any time, and they return to the streets to face late marriage and its consequences.
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