"CHOICE OF ALREADY MADE MEN" , IS ONE REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME

                                                    

                               CHOICE OF ALREADY MADE MEN

                          IS ONE REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS

                                    DO NOT MARRY ON TIME 

                  

                                                            WEALTHY MAN

Many matured girls like to marry already made men. Men who had been accomplished in different spheres of endeavor. Influential men attract matured girls so much that they desire to be in their homes as their wives.

The meaning of “already “is “by or before the given or implied time”. Already also mean,” even now or even then”. Alreadymade men are those men who have made money, names, and positions before encountering girls who want to be married to them.

At this point, the girls see those types of men as those who have become rich and are capable of taking good care of them.

So many girls do not like to marry developing men. Men who are still apprentices do not attract these types of girls. Some matured girls do not like to marry men who are under a senior businessman or high ranking officer.
The choice of already made men becomes a hindrance to early marriage with matured girls. Those matured girls who desire alreadymade men want everything in life to be there for their enjoyment and control. They want to live in a high rise buildings, bungalows or duplexes with all equipment and accessories that can be found in the home of already made men.

Those class of girls would not like to enter public transport because there are ready vehicles with drivers are at their beck and call. House boys and house girls are around to run errands, make purchases and do all sorts of household jobs.
Those matured girls crave for already made men so that they would like to be addressed as President’s wife, Senator’s wife, Queen, Lawyer’s wife, Judge’s wife, Bishop’s wife, Engineer’s wife, Governor’s wife, Speaker’s wife, etc.

Those girls who want already made men marry them go extra mile chasing around the men. The girls even go to the men when they are not invited. Some girls deliberately go to wash clothes, cook, clean the house, and mend beds when no one invited them.

When any other girl enters the house of the already made men, those girls get annoyed and show signs of worry at the presence of her fellow girls who come for one thing or the other.
There are matured girls who can do everything to cause divorce, separation, and problems between the lady of the house and the so-called already made men if a chance is given to them.
It is very important that the wives of men in positions of responsibility should guard against these kinds of matured girls. The girls can go to the extent of using  magic wands to steal away the heart of the already made man or even kill his wife by poisoning and take over.
Men in authority should not allow any matured unmarried girl to be too close to them. Those girls who want to marry already made men can be mischievous.
It is adviseable that matured girls should learn to live with uprising men, men learning trades, men who are about to graduate in training even though the beginning of the relationship may be a bit difficult.
Matured girls should learn to marry the above-mentioned categories of men in order to grow with them. With this idea, many of them will marry on time and have children on time. The development and success of those matured girls who marry young men on time cannot be overemphasized.

Those girls who marry already made men sometimes get entangled in family ways. Some of these girls abort as many pregnancies as possible. Some continue taking contraceptives for a long time because of many times of sexual intercourse in and out of the house with the already made men.

Sometimes, most matured girls  wait and waste endless time because some of the already made men  go out  to marry girls who are not too close to them.

The final blast of this action  becomes heartbreak and heart attack. Matured girls should desist from chasing and craving for already made men.
In  Lagos, a pastor and his wife were living and ministering in a church. The Pastor welcomed one of his choir girls, Ngozi by name, to help his wife in his house.
Within days Ngozi came to know that sometimes madam and Pastor quarrel over certain things. One day, Madam let out the cat in the bag, by confiding in Ngozi that her husband, the pastor does not give her enough money for her welfare. Madam also told Ngozi that Pastor wants her to have sex with her all the time he comes home from the church activities.
On hearing this, Ngozi started making overtures and within four days, Ngozi and Pastor have started having intercourse in the church office. The Pastor decided to employ Ngozi as his secretary.
Ngozi started getting money from the pastor. Her official salaries and gifts of cash gifts from the pastor made her change her outlook. She changed her clothes and put on many hairstyles more frequently than before. 
Suspicion rose at the end of one evening program when Madam asked for money to buy gas for the kitchen immediately after the program for the evening use. The pastor told his wife that he had no money on him. Madam left halfway with the children and decided to go back to the husband to ask him to search his office drawers, because someone gave her some money for her husband which she kept inside the office drawer of her husband.

The madam  left her children to the care of a female church member  and came back to the church. Peeping in through the window, she saw her husband giving money to Ngozi and the words from her husband the Pastor was this,” Ngozi, since you comply with me, whatever you need I will give you. Do not mind my madam. Leave her; she will suffer at my hands”.

There and then, madam rushed into the church office, grabbed her husband and fighting ensued. Ngozi shamefully left the church office.

Within three months, the Pastor’s wife became sick and suddenly died. There was mourning in the church.

After Madam was buried, Pastor made the church to know that Ngozi will start acting in place of his pastor’s wife. The pastor later married Ngozi and they are husband and wife now.

Madam did not know that accepting Ngozi to her house and letting Ngozi know of her secret with her husband was her silly mistake.
It was rumored that Madam was poisoned so that the Pastor and Ngozi will have their way and marry as husband and wife.
Today, Ngozi is the Pastor’s wife. Ngozi achieved her dreams within a few months of going near the Pastor's family. 

LONG CHOICE OF HUSBAND (PICK AND DROP OF SUITORS) IS ANOTHER REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME

                                     
            
      LONG CHOICE OF HUSBAND (PICK AND DROP OF SUITORS)
               Another Reason Why Matured Girls Do Not Marry On Time  

             

             

One of the reasons why matured girls marry late is Long Choice of Husband. 

Choice means “selection”, “the power to choose”,”option”,”an alternative”, “a supply well chosen”, “care in choosing”. 

These attitudes of some girls make them pick and drop suitors. They tend to test as many suitors as possible in the name of “I want to marry him”. The selection that goes on between some girls and their would-be husbands lasts for as many years as possible. These girls in question have the power to choose, but delay settling down with any suitor. From their apartments they escort Mr. A today and tomorrow they escort Mr.B.Next tomorrow it is Mr. C and so on. 

Due to this behavior, some of the girls form different men as options for themselves. They have the liberty to go out with any man at any given time all in the name of being fiancés to all of them. This is because some of those girls have a supply of men at her disposal. After moving from one man to another, they seem to be careful in choosing a suitor for marriage, but end up not settling down with any of them. Then they have alternative men that make them weak to choose from. At this point, confusion sets in. 


The choice becomes hard for them. Those whom they jilted, leave them to marry other younger girls who are seriously stable .Remember, young girls are growing up every day.
These senior girls due to frequent sexual activities with different men commit abortion from time to time. When these girls open their mouths, the stories they tell concerning their overtures and consequences following their actions, raise cold shivers on the listeners. Long choice of husbands seriously makes girls to marry late. The following story buttresses the fact that Long choice of husband make girls to marry late.
”In 2001, Mary just got a job in a company after her school certificate examinations. Then she was twenty one years old. Mary was in love with Mr. Peter who found the job for her .At a time she requested money from Mr. Peter, but the young man had no money to give her. She had promised to marry Peter, but due to Peter’s inability to give her the money, Mary switched over to Mr.Reuben,who borrowed money from his master to pay at month end when salary will be paid to him. 
Mary dumped Peter and was going out with Mr. Reuben. She had no remembrance of all the helps rendered to her by Mr. Peter during the time she was desperately in need of a job. One day Mr. Reuben saw his bosom girlfriend when he was in secondary school. He decided to bring her to his apartment. When Mary saw the girl, she was indignant. She brought all sorts of accusations to Mr.Reuben.Within two days; Mary pulled out her belongings from Mr. Reuben’s apartment and went back to her rented apartment.
  Mary was alone for about six months. Sometime on the seventh month, she was invited to her friend’s traditional wedding. Mary was called aside by one Comrade Isaac. The man was tall and looked like a trader. Mary asked the man what he does and where he lived. Comrade Isaac told Mary that he teaches at a Primary School nearby the venue of the traditional marriage. Mary thought that Comrade Isaac told her the truth. Within days Mary went to the Primary school looking for Comrade Isaac, but one female teacher embarrassed her. She came home dejected. One evening that same week, Comrade Isaac came to see Mary. She chose to take the man into her apartment. She cooked for Comrade Isaac and they slept together in Mary’s apartment that evening. In the next morning, Mary went to work a bit late after all her fellow workers have begun the days work. Mr.Reuben saw her with her new catch and said,”Mary,Is this one your lucky star?”.Mary answered, “Every season has its own story”. So the whole workers nicknamed Mary, “every season has its own story”. 

Mary left Comrade Isaac and switched over to Mr. Gerald who returned from London after studies in a University. Mary’s frequent visits to Mr. Gerald’s family attracted the wrath of Gerald’s mother. Gerald's mother spoke to Mary openly that her son Gerald cannot marry Mary because she  was now old and jumped from one man to the other as she gathered from nearby friends of hers. She was also rejected because she was not a graduate.Mr.Gerald’s relations encouraged him to marry a graduate nurse instead. That Mr. Gerald did, leaving Mary to hit the streets again looking for men she could hook for marriage.

 She continued on this behavior until she was about fourty one years old. As at the time of writing this blog, Mary has not gotten a permanent man for marriage.   

DOMINEERING ATTITUDE IS ONE OF THE REASONS WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME IS

                                                  

                                  DOMINEERING ATTITUDE 
                                   IS ONE OF THE REASONS 
             WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME IS 

Domineering attitude is one of the reasons why some girls marry late. Domineer means “to rule over in a harsh or arrogant way”. It also means “to tyrannize”. 

A domineering girl has the attitude of ruling over her fiancé in a harsh or arrogant way. A domineering girl has a tendency of inquiring into her fiancé’s movements and finances. She tells her fiancé whom to give money and who should not be given. She wants her husband- to- be to do whatever she says. She wants her fiancé to tell her every bit of his income and expenditure. A domineering girl has an attitude of instigating her fiancé to stop paying school fees for his siblings. She likes her fiancé to let her know the type of clothes he should buy for his parents, siblings and relations. 

A domineering girl places her words as the final word in every discussion and that must be carried out by her fiancé. If her fiancé goes contrary to her dictates, she will keep away from communicating with her fiancé until her decision is done. She influences her fiancé on how to relate with his old and new friends. She is a “sniffing dog” that finds out whom and who is cheating her fiancé or not. 

Her presence directly separates her fiancé from his immediate family, relations and friends. She has an insinuating spirit and adopts a deceptive posture. 

You will know a domineering girl once her fiancé refuses to accept her offers, she goes into nagging and refuses even to cook food for her fiancé. You see her talking in a derogatory tone against her fiancé and all that have to do with him. A domineering girl is dangerous because she kills and runs away. 

The following story buttresses the fact that a domineering girl can lead to the death of her fiancé even before the real marriage is contracted.

”Nkechi met Morgan at a hotel bush bar early October, 2004.She was dating Morgan with the intention that Morgan will marry her before December 2004.One Sunday in October 2004, Nkechi visited Morgan’s house uninvited. She came into Morgan’s house when he was cooking and took over the cooking. After that, Morgan gave her his picture album to watch. There and then she condemned most of the people in the pictures for not being beautiful. That afternoon, Bonny, a friend of Morgan visited him. Morgan introduced Nkechi to Bonny. During their discussion concerning a business deal, Nkechi openly said that Morgan will not participate in the business. The two friends looked at each other and kept quiet. Eventually Bonny left after one hour's discussion with Morgan. Morgan accepted to contribute 60% of the money needed for the business. Nkechi told Morgan that Bonny who has been Morgan’s friend for up to five years was a cheat. She insinuated that Morgan should not put his contribution of the money into the business deal. When time came, Bonny and others committed their own monies but Morgan declined. This led to a serious quarrel between the friends. The friends got annoyed and decided to kill Morgan for agreeing and withdrawing at the dying minute when they have committed huge sums of money. Nkechi insisted that Morgan should not release his own quota. His friends tried to pull out their monies but the process of the deal swallowed their monies. Had Morgan contributed, they are bound to make huge profits after recovery of their monies. 

On 30^th of December, 2004, Morgan was going to his business office when gun men suspected to be hired assassins from his angry friends gunned him down. Barely three weeks after his burial,Nkechi was found dating Ferdinand one of the friends of her late fiancé .Ferdinand had promised to marry Nkechi that December, but he did not know her to be Late Morgan’s fiancée  .Eventually when Ferdinand was told by friends that Nkechi was his late friend’s girl, he stopped all marriage processes he had commenced, because of the role played by Nkechi that took the life of Morgan”. 

This story shows that no man likes to die at the hand of a domineering girl, except people like Morgan. The sickness called domineering attitude can kill men and also be a hindrance to proposed marriages. When suitors discover that they are at a risk, for keeping a domineering girl, they run without looking back.

SOME GIRLS MAKE THEMSELVES TOO CHEAP TO MEN ONE REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME

                                                

                                    SOME GIRLS MAKE THEMSELVES
                                           TOO CHEAP FOR MEN
                                IS ONE GOOD REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS
                                           DO NOT MARRY ON TIME
        
 

 Matured Girls who make themselves too cheap to men stand to marry late or even not marry at all. 

Cheap is defined as, “low in price”,” changing low prices”, “spending little”, “worth more than the price”, “easily got”, “of little value”,” contemptible”,” available at a low-interest rate”. These are the expressions that describe the word cheap. 

There are Matured Girls who present themselves as “low priced girls” to men. These girls can accept a Ten Naira groundnut and sweet to fall in love to a man. Some of the Matured Girls can fall in love just for a cup of beer. There are other girls who bring themselves so low and can accept nothing as a token to become a lover to a man.

This makes it easier for men to exploit them sexually and after all the men still dump them for high price girls. There are also girls “who need nothing but nothing “to fall in love for a man. Oh, there should be a token from the man to show commitment. 

That is why people in business ask for commitment payment before the job is done, because clients may go to other people to do the same work either higher or lower at a price. The placement of token creates confidence within the two people involved in the business. There are also Matured Girls “who worth more than the price “they place themselves before men”. Imagine a tall, well mannered, graduate without any deformity, falling in love with Motor Park tout with little or no education and with their normal I-don’t –care attitude. The tout uses and dumps her to her foolish fate. This is because most touts hardly marry properly.

 There are girls who are “easily got”. This means that they can fall in love with a little gift of money, say Fifty Naira. These girls place themselves to be “of little value to men”. As a result, men need them when their key lovers are not around. So they become “contemptible” and “available at a low-interest rate”. 

A situation where a girl is only called to be a temporary lover, by a man when his key lover travels out of town. The Matured Girl only goes out to show off to her friends and mates that she is now a lover to such a man who places no value on her

A Matured Girl who makes herself so cheap destroys her future or lands herself in the hand of those who will treat her without care, hence her life becomes miserable. 

One of the reasons why men turn their wives into punch bags is as a result of the girl making herself so cheap. A girl who goes to live in a man’s house without letting her parents know of her relationship with that man is making herself so cheap. A girl who elopes with a man to live anywhere without the formal marital rites is making herself so cheap. A girl who does not want her husband to spend anything to marry her makes herself so cheap. A girl who could open her legs for a man for intercourse, become pregnant and deliver babies without her parent’s knowledge makes herself too cheap. 

These categories of girls can be booted out of their relationship without any string attached to compensation. They go back to the streets to look for those men, who may use and drop them with such accusations as,” you are married before, your evil deeds and bad character drove you out.”This is because men place value on what they pay for. They know that a good girl cannot be gotten for nothing. “Her price is far above rubies”(Proverbs 31:10b).   

Hence any girl who rushes to live with a man without formal marriage rites has deprived herself of respect of her parents and relations on her, her sweet wedding preparations which is the pride of leaving maidenhood to married life, the wedding ceremonies-traditional, court, and church respectively. She has lost her wedding gifts from her maiden family, her husband’s family, friends, workmates, and relations. It is good to be married properly to keep your dignity and respect. 

 Men who do not spend something in a marriage does not know the value of their wives. This is because a wife is defined as, “a man’s partner in marriage”. So there are many women on the streets out there, but very few wives really exist.
Majority of the women seen on the streets used the “backyard door “method, “the through window method” and or “the pregnancy method “to live with their husbands. A girl who makes herself cheap to a man loses the blessings of her parents, community, and others.

  A wife is a partner of a man in marriage, who allowed herself and her husband pass through the formal rites of marriage before living together as husband and wife. This is what is called a “married woman”. 

Those Matured Girls who flout the order of marital rites in their marriage may be thrown out of the relationship at any time, and they return to the streets to face late marriage and its consequences.

EXTENDED PROMISCUOUS LIVING EXTENDS TIME OF MARRIAGE

    EXTENDED PROMISCUOUS LIVING EXTENDS TIME OF MARRIAGE

All over the world, in all places where men and women live, there are many girls who live promiscuous lives. 

The word promiscuous means, “showing little taste in choosing, specifically engaging in sexual intercourse with many persons casually”. 

Most girls who have this character got it as a family trait. Promiscuity may come from the gene of the father or mother, that means it is inborn in them. Some of  them imbibe theirs from training and influence of their friends. Some are projected by evil people because of envy and hatred.

 No matter the reason, promiscuity is a point that promotes late marriage. Most girls say that” it is not good to rush into a man’s house and be a wife very early without enjoying their bodies”. 

Some girls say that if they are not saturated with men, they cannot be satisfied with one man when they get married. So many girls, though they are matured enough to get married continue to defer their marriages till such a time when men are no longer interested to take them as partners for marriage. 

Moving from one man to the other showing little taste in choosing is a common practice with girls described as having “hot pants”. A situation in which a girl makes herself available for sex on the street, club, school compound, office, hotel, airport, seaport, supermarket, on a trip, etc and is invited to a man’s house or hotel; she does not decline the invitation. She can even transport herself to the venue of the call. When she reaches and the man invites her to bed, she does not hesitate to pull her dresses and engage in sexual intercourse. This type of girl becomes very cheap for men to use and discard like the tissue paper.

This story explains promiscuous lifestyle further,”Keziah was born at a busy street in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. She grew with her mother who was a hotel proprietress. At ten years, she saw men come in the evening to take her mother out. One Friday evening, her mother took her along to another hotel where they met one Mr.Joseph.The man bought alcoholic drinks for all of them to drink. She felt uneasy but her mother persuaded her. At a time her mother went to a room where she was immediately followed by Mr.Joseph.

After a while, Keziah felt sleepy and went into the room without knocking. There she saw her mother and Mr, Joseph having sex. Keziah went out in shame. Twenty minutes later, Keziah’s mother came out and took her into the same hotel room. Joseph was still there.Keziah looked at her mother and her mother told her that they will sleep here and go in the morning.Keziah’s mother gave her some chicken meat and persuaded her to take a bottle of beer, because according to her mother, there was no  more food in the hotel.

Keziah slept with beer filled stomach. She became tipsy afterall.After about one two hours, her mother was asleep, Mr.Joseph romanced Keziah and later had an intercourse with her.In the morning, Keziah told her mother when they went to their house. Her mother told her that Mr. Joseph was a nice man, that if she cooperates with Mr.Joseph, he will buynew dresses and even sponsor her education.Keziah was inwardly uneasy.Keziah and her mother’s visit to Mr. Joseph became more frequent from that day, but her mother sleept with other men when  Mr. Joseph was not in town. Keziah saw this behavior as a norm. 

At fourteen years Keziah sleept out of her mother’s house without any scolding from her mother. All she did was to buy cosmetics, clothes and shoes which she used to decorate herself. She bought and went for any latest dress, shoes and hair style to show other girls that she was on.

Keziah later gained admission to the University through one of her clients, the Registrar of the institution. She studied Public Relations and could not graduate because she had no time for classes and studies. She also attempted learning the computer operations, but her bum- bum was her hinderance.

At her twenty fifth year, Keziah had gotten her own apartment, paid by her clients, lived in it and often brought men to sleep and pay her. She ran a provision store in which another girl sold for her. She only goes to the shop when her clients come there to drink and book her for her normal business.

 When Keziah became fourty two years, she attended a wedding of a relation of hers. She saw the children of one of her married school mates. She decided to get married to any of her clients who would accept her hand in marriage. Some of her clients proposed to her for marriage, but when they see that Keziah still kept and dated other men, they decline the offer. 

Today, Keziah moves from one church to another seeking to have a spiritual breakthrough to enable her get married. 

One can understand that Keziah’s mother destroyed the future marriage of her daughter. There are thousand and one examples of those whose promiscuous mothers ruined their lives.

 Others who can destroy a girl’s life are her promiscuous school friends, promiscuous relations and promiscuous coworkers.

 The Bible described a promiscuous woman as a strange woman. " For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:  But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.  Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.  Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.  Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:  Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labors be in the house of a stranger;  And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,  And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;  And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!  “(Proverbs 5:3-13) . 

The scriptures advice young men not to go near  a promiscuous woman’s house. That means, even heaven condemns her against being married to men who want to live a peaceful settled lifestyle. 
The scriptures has it that promiscuity is rooted in hell,“Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell”(Proverbs 5:5).  

 Only candidates of hell can get married to promiscuous girls because their lifestyle are founded on death and hell. 

Unfortunately, some young men marry promiscuous girls, thinking that they will give them the best sexual satisfaction, but as time goes on they meet their waterloo. This is because unless one repents of a sin and forsakes it completely, one cannot be free from the clutches of Satan and his wiles.

Truely,promiscuity carries a bad testimony. It is a promoter of late marriage. 

"LOVE OF MONEY" A NOTABLE REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME DO NOT MARRY ON TIME IS

                                           "LOVE OF MONEY"

                      A NOTABLE REASON WHY MATURED GIRLS 
                                   DO NOT MARRY ON TIME

Money means pieces of gold,silver,copper etc.stamped by government authority and used as medium of exchange .Any paper note authorized to be so used.Anything used as medium of exchange.Any sum of money and wealth.


A lover is a partner, especially male partner in love affair. A couple in love with each other.  A sweetheart. A person who greatly enjoys some specified thing.

A lover of money is that person who is in love with gold, silver, copper, these being recognized means of exchange. A girl who loves money is she who is in love not because of the man she stays with, but because the man is a money bag. This type of girl comes to the man with the view of making as much as she can for herself and for her people. 

A girl who is a lover of money is a sweetheart to money. She cannot stay without money. She breathes money. She smells money and she can destroy even the man she associates with in quest of money. So the girl is in love with all paper notes and coins that can be exchanged for items dear to her.

A girl who loves money can be noted in her incessant request for money. If she is to wash plates she demands for money to buy soap even when the soap is there in the house. A girl who loves money is naturally on a contract relationship. She acquires money and leaves from one man to another just to get money for herself. She can hardly do anything without mentioning money.

The Bible remarks,” For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows”(1 Timothy 6:10) 

 The love of money drives many girls crazy especially when their fiancés are rich or occupying positions where money flows into her hands. The episode of Samson and Delilah is a good example of a girl who loved money more than her fiancé. Read the scripture.
” And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.  And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him; and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver.  And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightiest be bound to afflict thee.  And Samson said unto her, If they bind me with seven green withs that were never dried, then shall I be weak, and be as another man.  Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven green withs which had not been dried, and she bound him with them.  Now there were men lying in wait, abiding with her in the chamber. And she said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he brake the withs, as a thread of tow is broken when it toucheth the fire. So his strength was not known.  And Delilah said unto Samson, Behold, thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: now tell me, I pray thee, wherewith thou mightest be bound.  And he said unto her, If they bind me fast with new ropes that never were occupied, then shall I be weak, and be as another man.  Delilah therefore took new ropes, and bound him therewith, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And there were liers in wait abiding in the chamber. And he brake them from off his arms like a thread.  And Delilah said unto Samson, Hitherto thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: tell me wherewith thou mightest be bound. And he said unto her, If thou weavest the seven locks of my head with the web.  And she fastened it with the pin, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awaked out of his sleep, and went away with the pin of the beam, and with the web.  And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth.  And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death; That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a razor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother's womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man.   

And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this once, for he hath shewed me all his heart. Then the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and brought money in their hand.  And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him.  And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the LORD was departed from him.  But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house.  (Judges 16:4-21).

This is how a girl that loves money will do to unsuspecting men to enrich herself and zoom off. It is the love of money that made Ananias and Sapphira lose their lives.

The scripture records, “But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession,  And kept back part of the price, his wife also being privy to it, and brought a certain part, and laid it at the apostles' feet.  But Peter said, Ananias, why hath Satan filled thine heart to lie to the Holy Ghost, and to keep back part of the price of the land? Whiles it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power? why hast thou conceived this thing in thine heart? Thou hast not lied unto men, but unto God.

  And Ananias hearing these words fell down, and gave up the ghost: and great fear came on all them that heard these things.  And the young men arose, wound him up, and carried him out, and buried him.  And it was about the space of three hours after, when his wife, not knowing what was done, came in.  And Peter answered unto her, Tell me whether ye sold the land for so much? And she said, Yea, for so much.  Then Peter said unto her, How is it that ye have agreed together to tempt the Spirit of the Lord? behold, the feet of them which have buried thy husband are at the door, and shall carry thee out.  Then fell she down straightway at his feet, and yielded up the ghost: and the young men came in, and found her dead, and, carrying her forth, buried her by her husband.  And great fear came upon all the church, and upon as many as heard these things”. (Acts of the Apostles 5:1-11)
 The meaning of” his wife also being privy to it” was that Sapphira privately discussed the issue of the release of the part of the money they received for selling their property  with Ananias  and the man was convinced to accept her advice. This led to their untimely death leaving the money for other people to use.

 It is not good to keep a girl who loves money close. Delila and Sephira all led to the untimely death of their men. Those girls who continue to rush to a well to do family should be tested with money. If they are found to be more concerned with money than the life of the members of the family, she should be ejected after scolding if she did not change her lifestyle of loving money more than human life. 

The story below shows that girls who love money should be kept at bay.”
Maria met Joe in a boutique in Lagos. Maria introduced herself as a banker to Joe. The two love birds had drinks at a nearby restaurant, exchanged phone numbers and Joe gave Three Thousand Naira to Maria for her transport. The two departed. 

Maria went to her apartment and rummaged over her new catch. She kept on calling Joe on the phone to invite her for the next weekend. Joe told her to see him at Ketu in Lagos where he went to visit his friend. Maria went to Ketu on Friday after work and met Joe in a well decorated home, full of side attractions and flowing wealth.

 When Maria saw the cars, the infrastructure of the house which includes wall television in every room, a wonderfully designed kitchen, store with all sorts of food varieties, the chandeliers her body went on fire. Joe later told her that that compound is their family house and they lost their parents two years ago to plane crash.

 Maria asked Joe what his position in the family is. Joe told her that he was the second son. Maria asked Joe who the first son is and Joe told her that his elder brother is in the United States of America. Maria asked after Joe’s sisters and he told her that they were married. 

Maria now asked Joe whether he had other girlfriends and Joe replied that he had just one but he is not too serious with her. Maria asked him whether that his other girlfriend comes to their house and Joe replied on the affirmative.

Maria went home after being served with delicious dishes. She kept on thinking of how to eliminate all mentioned people whom she believed will be her obstacle to be rich. Two weekends later, out of a pure heart, Joe called Maria that his brother just landed from the US. Maria quickly armed herself with poisonous substance she bought from the dealers the previous day she went to the evening shopping. 

On getting to Joe’s house, she was introduced to Joe’s brother and Joe’s other girlfriend. As Joe’s other girlfriend was discussing with Joe’s brother, Maria signaled to Joe requesting that she will like to give them a delicious food. Joe’s other girlfriend Lizzy was very happy to hear that someone else will be in the kitchen so that she will have more time to discuss with Joe’s brother. Joe went out to pick some drinks from a nearby supermarket. Within forty five minutes, Maria finished the cooking, poisoned the food and served Lizzy and Joe’s brother. The next twenty minutes, Joe entered the palour and saw his brother and Lizzy writhing in pains. Then Maria was washing plates in the kitchen and she pretended not knowing what was happening in the palour.

The shouts of help, help, help from Joe dragged her into the palour. Joe asked Maria what was happening, since the two victims cannot talk, Maria said she did not know. Then Joe took his brother and girlfriend into his car and sped off to a nearby clinic. Just at the door of the clinic, the two persons died. Joe was shattered. He cried and for about four hours the doctor carried out autopsy.

 While Joe was calling his relations outside Maria went to see the doctor and they agreed on an amount so that the doctor can give a negative result. The result instead of being food poisoning became electrocution. 

Joe mourned his girlfriend and brother for a long time. At this point, Maria became so close to Joe. Maria pressurized Joe to marry her. This he did in a marriage registry. There was no time that Joe suspected that Maria can poison anybody because of her innocent appearances. 

One day, Joe was in the palour and Maria went to bathe, he wanted to buy cigarette but had no small denominations. He went out to the street to look for cigarette and change of money denominations together. 

Maria had ample chances to prepare fried eggs, boil water for tea and bread was there in the fridge. Maria decided to poison the fried egg. Joe came in and enjoyed the poisoned food. Like other people, Joe died and joined them.

 Maria occupied the whole estate. She sold cars, got the family records and sold properties, converting them to cash. She now has a large business empire. She is now a rich woman, being adored by many men and women. 

It is suicidal to keep or have a Matured Girl who loves money close to a family.