INTRODUCTION
“REASONS WHY MATURED GIRLS DO NOT MARRY ON TIME”
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It is a project that should be handled with care because of its intricacies. To get married on time means that a girl leaves her parent’s house to join her husband at an age of full maturity and not at an over matured age.
In order words, we are dealing with reasons why girls who are of full marriage age do not marry on time or the reasons that hinder girls from marrying when they are fully grown and able to live in their husbands’ house.
To marry means, “to join as husband and wife”, “to take as husband or wife” and “to join closely” all these meaning to get married.”
Who are Matured Girls? It is better to get the real meaning of this age range. To do this we need to define the terms. Mature means “full grown, ripe, fully developed, perfected “etc. It also means” due”.
A girl means “a female child”. She also means, ”a young unmarried woman” .A girl is further defined as follows“ a female servant”,” a woman of any age” and” a sweetheart” .To get the real meaning, a matured Girl is a full grown, ripe ,fully developed young unmarried woman ,according to our topic “due” for marriage.
Maturity is based on being due for marriage. That means that the matured girl is ready to be married. There is a difference between an ordinary female child and a matured girl. Marriage goes with maturity. In every sane society, girls of tender age are not released to be married.
At least from one year old to seventeen years old girl can be considered as children and teenagers. This is because they are not fully developed in body structure and general education. Though a girl of fifteen years who has started seeing her menses is naturally matured and can have a baby, yet she has not reached the world standard of maturity age of eighteen.
At eighteen years of age she is fully able to face all life’s choices and can be liable to any crime. She can vote and be voted for. She can be admitted into the university and can be employed by those who need her services. Hence before eighteen, a girl is considered a minor. A girl can be considered as “a woman of any age” when she has reached eighteen years and above.
A woman means “an adult female human being”. An adult woman means, “Grown up, fully developed, and matured woman”. To define a girl as “a woman of any age goes to show case a woman as a helper in and to all humanity represented by man as the head of all humanity. Girls if married are universal helpers to their husbands and the family, a position God placed them.
The Bible maintains, “but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him”. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man”. (Genesis 2:20b-22).So the position of a girl as” a female servant” is a universal phenomenon.
This means that a girl is expected to be a helper from her young age. At least to undertake some chores in the human family, a girl in her tender age, say from four years of age till old age can wash plates, sweep floor, arrange things in the house etc. Our assessment of maturity is based on the fact of age of marriage.
At least a marriageable age stands at eighteen years for girls, any age under eighteen can be considered as “a girl child” who is not matured for marriage. A girl is a “sweetheart” defined as a “lover and darling.”This shows that a girl can love and be loved by people of the human race. She can be a darling to her husband and children if she is married.
A girl means “a female child”. She also means, ”a young unmarried woman” .A girl is further defined as follows“ a female servant”,” a woman of any age” and” a sweetheart” .To get the real meaning, a matured Girl is a full grown, ripe ,fully developed young unmarried woman ,according to our topic “due” for marriage.
Maturity is based on being due for marriage. That means that the matured girl is ready to be married. There is a difference between an ordinary female child and a matured girl. Marriage goes with maturity. In every sane society, girls of tender age are not released to be married.
At least from one year old to seventeen years old girl can be considered as children and teenagers. This is because they are not fully developed in body structure and general education. Though a girl of fifteen years who has started seeing her menses is naturally matured and can have a baby, yet she has not reached the world standard of maturity age of eighteen.
At eighteen years of age she is fully able to face all life’s choices and can be liable to any crime. She can vote and be voted for. She can be admitted into the university and can be employed by those who need her services. Hence before eighteen, a girl is considered a minor. A girl can be considered as “a woman of any age” when she has reached eighteen years and above.
A woman means “an adult female human being”. An adult woman means, “Grown up, fully developed, and matured woman”. To define a girl as “a woman of any age goes to show case a woman as a helper in and to all humanity represented by man as the head of all humanity. Girls if married are universal helpers to their husbands and the family, a position God placed them.
The Bible maintains, “but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him”. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man”. (Genesis 2:20b-22).So the position of a girl as” a female servant” is a universal phenomenon.
This means that a girl is expected to be a helper from her young age. At least to undertake some chores in the human family, a girl in her tender age, say from four years of age till old age can wash plates, sweep floor, arrange things in the house etc. Our assessment of maturity is based on the fact of age of marriage.
At least a marriageable age stands at eighteen years for girls, any age under eighteen can be considered as “a girl child” who is not matured for marriage. A girl is a “sweetheart” defined as a “lover and darling.”This shows that a girl can love and be loved by people of the human race. She can be a darling to her husband and children if she is married.
Nowadays, for some grown up, matured and fully developed girls, it seems that marriage is a subject on the front burner. This is because many girls are not hooked up with men of their choice or are in a relationship for many months and years without having a serious definition of the end of the relationship with their male friends.
Virtually on the streets, in the old and modern towns, village markets, supermarkets, hotels, modern eateries, girls abound in good numbers. Girls out numbering the men are natural. Biology tells that many females come more frequently every month than males.
Females’ chances of being conceived and born into the family range from immediately after menses to the 16th day or above, while the male children mostly come between 14th to 17th days after a woman’s menses, all these are if a healthy wife has intercourse with her healthy husband.
This means that men have only 4 days chance to come every month from a healthy man and healthy woman. This makes it natural for girls to outnumber the men. Secondary reasons are that war, crises; too many hard works reduce the life span and number of men in every society.
Ladies are desperately looking for few men located in the offices, village markets, construction centers, hotels, modern eateries, bars and in all places of endeavor to get married to them. These days, “the streets of the city are full of boys and girls playing in the streets” (Zech 8:5).
Virtually on the streets, in the old and modern towns, village markets, supermarkets, hotels, modern eateries, girls abound in good numbers. Girls out numbering the men are natural. Biology tells that many females come more frequently every month than males.
Females’ chances of being conceived and born into the family range from immediately after menses to the 16th day or above, while the male children mostly come between 14th to 17th days after a woman’s menses, all these are if a healthy wife has intercourse with her healthy husband.
This means that men have only 4 days chance to come every month from a healthy man and healthy woman. This makes it natural for girls to outnumber the men. Secondary reasons are that war, crises; too many hard works reduce the life span and number of men in every society.
Ladies are desperately looking for few men located in the offices, village markets, construction centers, hotels, modern eateries, bars and in all places of endeavor to get married to them. These days, “the streets of the city are full of boys and girls playing in the streets” (Zech 8:5).
Due to so many reasons only known to some girls, many of them find it difficult to make up their minds to choose a husband from a chain of men they are in ‘love’ with.
Many ladies have withdrawn and given ‘red card’ to marriage. This is because some of them had heaped themselves to many men who had sucked them in and out like orange.
The girls get disappointed, and men jilted them with no signs of retracing their steps back to find them. There are many ladies who have committed suicide as a result of inhuman treatment meted to them by their male lovers.
Some girls are now running away from men as a result of the above mentioned points, yet it is expected that girls should be married and settle down in their husband’s house because time waits for no body.
One of the reasons why some ladies resort to lesbianism-homosexuality between women is because their male counterparts treated them with disdain. However, it is demonic to be a lesbian. Those who fall into this sin should repent and be delivered of the demonic powers in charge of Lesbianism. This is because, God created Adam and Eve and they lived together. It is Godly and natural for Men and women to live together.
The scripture confirmed this by reporting,” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth”. (Genesis 1:27-28).
It is pertinent to note that there is no human product in lesbianism. This practice is a complete deviation from the normal relationship of a man and a woman as approved by God .A woman cannot impregnate a fellow woman. No child is born to lesbians except they agree to employ a man to impregnate them.
At this point if a lesbian becomes pregnant through a man, the idea of lesbianism disappears. The Lord Jesus Christ sealed this subject by teaching this,” And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. (Matthew 19:4-6)
Marriage of a man and woman living together as one has fruits accompanying the relationship. Children are born for posterity and continuity. It is a curse in the sight of God and man for women to live together as lesbians. One woman acting as a husband and the other acting as a wife. The union of female to female brings no fruit.
Remember that God ordered that mankind including me and you should” increase and multiply”.Females acting as husband and wife and living like same is an aberration from the normal natural lifestyle.
Acting means “temporarily taking over the duties of a position”. It also means “functioning” example the act of an actor in a play. This definition makes us to understand that lesbianism is a temporary relationship, like those acting plays at a theater. Marriage is a lifelong issue between the opposite sex, male and female, and not a temporary contract or relationship between a female and a female or a male to a male.
REMINDER:
Many ladies have withdrawn and given ‘red card’ to marriage. This is because some of them had heaped themselves to many men who had sucked them in and out like orange.
The girls get disappointed, and men jilted them with no signs of retracing their steps back to find them. There are many ladies who have committed suicide as a result of inhuman treatment meted to them by their male lovers.
Some girls are now running away from men as a result of the above mentioned points, yet it is expected that girls should be married and settle down in their husband’s house because time waits for no body.
One of the reasons why some ladies resort to lesbianism-homosexuality between women is because their male counterparts treated them with disdain. However, it is demonic to be a lesbian. Those who fall into this sin should repent and be delivered of the demonic powers in charge of Lesbianism. This is because, God created Adam and Eve and they lived together. It is Godly and natural for Men and women to live together.
The scripture confirmed this by reporting,” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth”. (Genesis 1:27-28).
It is pertinent to note that there is no human product in lesbianism. This practice is a complete deviation from the normal relationship of a man and a woman as approved by God .A woman cannot impregnate a fellow woman. No child is born to lesbians except they agree to employ a man to impregnate them.
At this point if a lesbian becomes pregnant through a man, the idea of lesbianism disappears. The Lord Jesus Christ sealed this subject by teaching this,” And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. (Matthew 19:4-6)
Marriage of a man and woman living together as one has fruits accompanying the relationship. Children are born for posterity and continuity. It is a curse in the sight of God and man for women to live together as lesbians. One woman acting as a husband and the other acting as a wife. The union of female to female brings no fruit.
Remember that God ordered that mankind including me and you should” increase and multiply”.Females acting as husband and wife and living like same is an aberration from the normal natural lifestyle.
Acting means “temporarily taking over the duties of a position”. It also means “functioning” example the act of an actor in a play. This definition makes us to understand that lesbianism is a temporary relationship, like those acting plays at a theater. Marriage is a lifelong issue between the opposite sex, male and female, and not a temporary contract or relationship between a female and a female or a male to a male.
REMINDER:
The points discussed in this Blog are the Reasons Why Matured Girls Get Married Late. These points discussed further in subsequent topics will guide the reader to take action or advice matured girls to observe and remedy their conditions in order to get married as soon as they are fully grown, matured and due for marriage.
This book can be the best gift you give to girls who are growing up and getting ready to marry. It is a direction for girls in every family. The points should be discussed by parents with their children who are girls and friends. It is a known fact that unmarried full grown girls are liabilities to their parents. It is more glorious for ladies to marry and settle down with their husbands to inaugurate new families for human continuity.
This book can be the best gift you give to girls who are growing up and getting ready to marry. It is a direction for girls in every family. The points should be discussed by parents with their children who are girls and friends. It is a known fact that unmarried full grown girls are liabilities to their parents. It is more glorious for ladies to marry and settle down with their husbands to inaugurate new families for human continuity.
