EXTENDED PROMISCUOUS LIVING EXTENDS TIME OF MARRIAGE
All over the world, in all places where men and women live, there are many girls who live promiscuous lives.
The word promiscuous means, “showing little taste in choosing, specifically engaging in sexual intercourse with many persons casually”.
Most girls who have this character got it as a family trait. Promiscuity may come from the gene of the father or mother, that means it is inborn in them. Some of them imbibe theirs from training and influence of their friends. Some are projected by evil people because of envy and hatred.
No matter the reason, promiscuity is a point that promotes late marriage. Most girls say that” it is not good to rush into a man’s house and be a wife very early without enjoying their bodies”.
Some girls say that if they are not saturated with men, they cannot be satisfied with one man when they get married. So many girls, though they are matured enough to get married continue to defer their marriages till such a time when men are no longer interested to take them as partners for marriage.
Moving from one man to the other showing little taste in choosing is a common practice with girls described as having “hot pants”. A situation in which a girl makes herself available for sex on the street, club, school compound, office, hotel, airport, seaport, supermarket, on a trip, etc and is invited to a man’s house or hotel; she does not decline the invitation. She can even transport herself to the venue of the call. When she reaches and the man invites her to bed, she does not hesitate to pull her dresses and engage in sexual intercourse. This type of girl becomes very cheap for men to use and discard like the tissue paper.
This story explains promiscuous lifestyle further,”Keziah was born at a busy street in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. She grew with her mother who was a hotel proprietress. At ten years, she saw men come in the evening to take her mother out. One Friday evening, her mother took her along to another hotel where they met one Mr.Joseph.The man bought alcoholic drinks for all of them to drink. She felt uneasy but her mother persuaded her. At a time her mother went to a room where she was immediately followed by Mr.Joseph.
After a while, Keziah felt sleepy and went into the room without knocking. There she saw her mother and Mr, Joseph having sex. Keziah went out in shame. Twenty minutes later, Keziah’s mother came out and took her into the same hotel room. Joseph was still there.Keziah looked at her mother and her mother told her that they will sleep here and go in the morning.Keziah’s mother gave her some chicken meat and persuaded her to take a bottle of beer, because according to her mother, there was no more food in the hotel.
Keziah slept with beer filled stomach. She became tipsy afterall.After about one two hours, her mother was asleep, Mr.Joseph romanced Keziah and later had an intercourse with her.In the morning, Keziah told her mother when they went to their house. Her mother told her that Mr. Joseph was a nice man, that if she cooperates with Mr.Joseph, he will buynew dresses and even sponsor her education.Keziah was inwardly uneasy.Keziah and her mother’s visit to Mr. Joseph became more frequent from that day, but her mother sleept with other men when Mr. Joseph was not in town. Keziah saw this behavior as a norm.
At fourteen years Keziah sleept out of her mother’s house without any scolding from her mother. All she did was to buy cosmetics, clothes and shoes which she used to decorate herself. She bought and went for any latest dress, shoes and hair style to show other girls that she was on.
Keziah later gained admission to the University through one of her clients, the Registrar of the institution. She studied Public Relations and could not graduate because she had no time for classes and studies. She also attempted learning the computer operations, but her bum- bum was her hinderance.
At her twenty fifth year, Keziah had gotten her own apartment, paid by her clients, lived in it and often brought men to sleep and pay her. She ran a provision store in which another girl sold for her. She only goes to the shop when her clients come there to drink and book her for her normal business.
When Keziah became fourty two years, she attended a wedding of a relation of hers. She saw the children of one of her married school mates. She decided to get married to any of her clients who would accept her hand in marriage. Some of her clients proposed to her for marriage, but when they see that Keziah still kept and dated other men, they decline the offer.
Today, Keziah moves from one church to another seeking to have a spiritual breakthrough to enable her get married.
One can understand that Keziah’s mother destroyed the future marriage of her daughter. There are thousand and one examples of those whose promiscuous mothers ruined their lives.
Others who can destroy a girl’s life are her promiscuous school friends, promiscuous relations and promiscuous coworkers.
The Bible described a promiscuous woman as a strange woman. " For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell. Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them. Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth. Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labors be in the house of a stranger; And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof; And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me! “(Proverbs 5:3-13) .
The scriptures advice young men not to go near a promiscuous woman’s house. That means, even heaven condemns her against being married to men who want to live a peaceful settled lifestyle.
The scriptures has it that promiscuity is rooted in hell,“Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell”(Proverbs 5:5).
Only candidates of hell can get married to promiscuous girls because their lifestyle are founded on death and hell.
Unfortunately, some young men marry promiscuous girls, thinking that they will give them the best sexual satisfaction, but as time goes on they meet their waterloo. This is because unless one repents of a sin and forsakes it completely, one cannot be free from the clutches of Satan and his wiles.
Truely,promiscuity carries a bad testimony. It is a promoter of late marriage.
The word promiscuous means, “showing little taste in choosing, specifically engaging in sexual intercourse with many persons casually”.
Most girls who have this character got it as a family trait. Promiscuity may come from the gene of the father or mother, that means it is inborn in them. Some of them imbibe theirs from training and influence of their friends. Some are projected by evil people because of envy and hatred.
No matter the reason, promiscuity is a point that promotes late marriage. Most girls say that” it is not good to rush into a man’s house and be a wife very early without enjoying their bodies”.
Some girls say that if they are not saturated with men, they cannot be satisfied with one man when they get married. So many girls, though they are matured enough to get married continue to defer their marriages till such a time when men are no longer interested to take them as partners for marriage.
Moving from one man to the other showing little taste in choosing is a common practice with girls described as having “hot pants”. A situation in which a girl makes herself available for sex on the street, club, school compound, office, hotel, airport, seaport, supermarket, on a trip, etc and is invited to a man’s house or hotel; she does not decline the invitation. She can even transport herself to the venue of the call. When she reaches and the man invites her to bed, she does not hesitate to pull her dresses and engage in sexual intercourse. This type of girl becomes very cheap for men to use and discard like the tissue paper.
This story explains promiscuous lifestyle further,”Keziah was born at a busy street in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. She grew with her mother who was a hotel proprietress. At ten years, she saw men come in the evening to take her mother out. One Friday evening, her mother took her along to another hotel where they met one Mr.Joseph.The man bought alcoholic drinks for all of them to drink. She felt uneasy but her mother persuaded her. At a time her mother went to a room where she was immediately followed by Mr.Joseph.
After a while, Keziah felt sleepy and went into the room without knocking. There she saw her mother and Mr, Joseph having sex. Keziah went out in shame. Twenty minutes later, Keziah’s mother came out and took her into the same hotel room. Joseph was still there.Keziah looked at her mother and her mother told her that they will sleep here and go in the morning.Keziah’s mother gave her some chicken meat and persuaded her to take a bottle of beer, because according to her mother, there was no more food in the hotel.
Keziah slept with beer filled stomach. She became tipsy afterall.After about one two hours, her mother was asleep, Mr.Joseph romanced Keziah and later had an intercourse with her.In the morning, Keziah told her mother when they went to their house. Her mother told her that Mr. Joseph was a nice man, that if she cooperates with Mr.Joseph, he will buynew dresses and even sponsor her education.Keziah was inwardly uneasy.Keziah and her mother’s visit to Mr. Joseph became more frequent from that day, but her mother sleept with other men when Mr. Joseph was not in town. Keziah saw this behavior as a norm.
At fourteen years Keziah sleept out of her mother’s house without any scolding from her mother. All she did was to buy cosmetics, clothes and shoes which she used to decorate herself. She bought and went for any latest dress, shoes and hair style to show other girls that she was on.
Keziah later gained admission to the University through one of her clients, the Registrar of the institution. She studied Public Relations and could not graduate because she had no time for classes and studies. She also attempted learning the computer operations, but her bum- bum was her hinderance.
At her twenty fifth year, Keziah had gotten her own apartment, paid by her clients, lived in it and often brought men to sleep and pay her. She ran a provision store in which another girl sold for her. She only goes to the shop when her clients come there to drink and book her for her normal business.
When Keziah became fourty two years, she attended a wedding of a relation of hers. She saw the children of one of her married school mates. She decided to get married to any of her clients who would accept her hand in marriage. Some of her clients proposed to her for marriage, but when they see that Keziah still kept and dated other men, they decline the offer.
Today, Keziah moves from one church to another seeking to have a spiritual breakthrough to enable her get married.
One can understand that Keziah’s mother destroyed the future marriage of her daughter. There are thousand and one examples of those whose promiscuous mothers ruined their lives.
The Bible described a promiscuous woman as a strange woman. " For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell. Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them. Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth. Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labors be in the house of a stranger; And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof; And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me! “(Proverbs 5:3-13) .
The scriptures advice young men not to go near a promiscuous woman’s house. That means, even heaven condemns her against being married to men who want to live a peaceful settled lifestyle.
The scriptures has it that promiscuity is rooted in hell,“Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell”(Proverbs 5:5).
Only candidates of hell can get married to promiscuous girls because their lifestyle are founded on death and hell.
Unfortunately, some young men marry promiscuous girls, thinking that they will give them the best sexual satisfaction, but as time goes on they meet their waterloo. This is because unless one repents of a sin and forsakes it completely, one cannot be free from the clutches of Satan and his wiles.
Truely,promiscuity carries a bad testimony. It is a promoter of late marriage.
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